Mehdi Iraj Kazemi

mehdi kazemi

On Sunday, February 12, 2023, Mehdi Iraj Kazemi, loving father and grandfather of five children and five grandchildren, passed on peacefully at the age of 90 in Murrieta California.

Mehdi was born on December 17, 1932, in Teheran, Iran, the son of Moussa and Mariam Kazemi; he is survived by sons Mehrdad (Margaret) Afshar and Tooraj (Tracey) Kazemi, Daughters Mojdeh Sakaki, Gissoo (James) DeCotiis, and grandchildren Ali Afshar, Babak and Bijan Sakaki, and William and Emily DeCotiis.

He was a Colonel in the Iranian National Police Force and retired after 25 years of service. He was preceded by death by his wife Kobra Kazemi and his son Fariborz Afshar.

He enjoyed traveling around the world and yearned for his birth country.  He was passionate about Persian poetry, backgammon, spending time with family and friends, cooking and eating Persian foods, and gardening.  He loved his family unconditionally and was an extremely kind and compassionate man who truly cared for everyone he met and helped anyone in need.

Visitation for family and friends, and a memorial service honoring his life will be held from 4:00 PM to 8:00 PM at England Family Mortuary on Madison Avenue in Temecula, CA on Friday February 17, 2023.

Memorial donations in his honor may be given to UNICEF USA.

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  1. Thank you for always showing me how to be a compassionate and caring person throughout my life. You were my inspiration and my North Star. A fathers love is forever imprinted on his children’s lives. I will miss you forever

    • Dear Gissoo,
      I am so very sorry for your loss. I am sending you love with prayers of peace and comfort. Your dad sounded like an awesome man, and he certainly raised an awesome daughter!
      Love,
      Kaevon and Charles Stewart

    • Dearest Gissoo and Family,
      I am so sorry for your loss but so happy that you had a kind, compassionate and amazing man as your Father! You are a testament to the love and kindness your parents taught you. Sending love and hugs to you, Emily, William and your entire family.
      Love, Laura

  2. For my father, friend, and the person who has always been there for me through every challenge, and every happy event in my life. I’m grateful for your never-ending love, and know you are and will be with me in every turn. Love you Baba forever…

    • Dear Tony and Family – I am so sorry to read about the passing of your father. He was such a wonderful man and full of life. He always had a smile and that smile and love will be looking over you forever. My love and prayers are with you during this difficult time ❤️

      • Dear Jeanne,
        It was so wonderful to speak with you during one of the most challenging times of my life; thank you for being a fantastic friend and mentor.
        You are so correct about his smile; everyone remembers him for that and the kindness you showed to everyone. He was indeed a great man.

  3. Dear Gissoo, I am sending love and prayers to you and your entire family. I am so sure your dad is smiling down on you and your family with a smile as beautiful as his picture and love in his heart.
    Love, Chris & Jim Muse

  4. Gisoo, We are so sorry for your loss. You, and your family are in our prayers. Love Laurie, Glenn, Greg & Leanne

  5. Gissoo – I am so sorry for your loss. Sending you the biggest hug and know that my thoughts are with you and your family. ❤️Love, Sue

    • Thanks Sue. You are such a great friend. I am so glad you got to meet him at our wedding so many years ago – I miss him so much 😢

  6. Dearest Gissoo,
    My deepest condolences to you and your family. May you all be surrounded by love and comforted by a lifetime of beautiful memories. Our thoughts are with you. Love, Clarissa, Keith, Liam and Bella Stamler

  7. Dear Gissoo,

    I am deeply sorry to hear about the passing of your father. Losing a loved one is always difficult, and my heart goes out to you and your family during this painful time.

    I hope that you find comfort and solace in the memories you shared together.

    Sudarshan & Lauren

  8. Dear Gissoo,

    I am sorry to hear about the passing of your father. It is never easy to lose a loved one.

    all the best and my prayers are with you, your father and your family

    Rodney and Adriana Smith

  9. Dear Gissoo,
    Please accept our deepest condolences for your loss and know that our thoughts are with you and your family.
    Love, The Francki Family

    • Thanks Aleks. It is so difficult- I love my memories with him. He was a wonderful, compassionate man. 😞

  10. Dearest Gissoo,
    I am so sorry to hear about your Dad’s passing. I know how much you loved & respected him. I hope he did not have a long drawn out painful passing.
    If there is anything I can do to help you, please let me know. I am not working
    Right now & would love to help you in anyway I can.
    May the memories of your Dad be a blessing & bring you & your family comfort during this difficult time!.
    Love & blessings,
    Debbie Becker

    • Thank you Debbie. It has been very difficult for me to let go but I am grateful he went very quickly and he did not suffer. 😞

  11. Dear Gissoo-

    What a wondeful man your father was! His legacy clearly lives on in you and your family. Howproud of you he must be! Sending my thoughts, prayers and love to you and your family.

    Love,
    Samantha Johnson

  12. Dear Gissoo,

    Sending you and your family condolences and warm, loving thoughts during this difficult time. May you find comfort in the love and legacy your father leaves behind. What a beautiful life has lived and may he live on in your hearts and memories!

    With love,
    Pia and the LoPresti Family

    • Dear Pia – thank you for the lovely sentiments. He was truly a lovely person, kind and compassionate- he will be sorely missed 😞

  13. Dear Gissoo,

    Our warmest thoughts are with you and your family. Your father lives on in your memories forever. And his virtues live on in you.

    With love
    Gunnar & family

    • Thank you Gunnar. He was truly an amazing man – kind, compassionate and truly loving individual. My North Star always 😞

  14. Dear Gissoo, Tony, Mojdeh and family,
    We can’t picture your dad without a smile on his face. We’ll always remember him as cheerful, energetic and kind. He was the epitome of a gentleman and a great and loving family man. He also made the best tahdig!

    All of you, and him, are in our thoughts and prayers, now and always.

    Love,
    Kellie and Don

    • Dear Kellie. I am so glad you got to know him. He was amazing in every way. I miss his kindness and love for me. He was my biggest fan and most humble friend 😞

  15. Gissoo,

    I am so sorry for your loss, it looks like your father led an incredible life! I will keep you and your family in my prayers during this difficult time.

  16. با قلبی آکنده از اندوه و تٲثر در گذشت پسر خاله گرانقدر و بزرگوارمان جناب آقای ایرج کاظمی را به فرزندان و خاله زادگان عزیز و مهربانمان تسلیت گفته و برای روح آن بزرگوار از درگاه پروردگار بزرگ رحمت و آرامش آرزومندیم

    ❤️ فریده، رحیم، علیرضا، نیلوفر، رضا

    • Faridehjon, Rahim aziz, AliRezajon, Niloufar aziz va Rezajon,

      Tashakor as peyghameh libation. Irajkhan marred bossier azizy bood va cheghadr ma hameh khoshbakht boodam bekhatereh mehraboony ishoon.

      Jashoon bessiar khaliyeh

  17. To Mojdeh, and Family. We are so sad for you and with you, for your Dad’s passing. He was such a good, kind, and compassionate Man. He will always be remembered. Our Prayers and Thoughts are with you.
    Love, Eunice and Dieter Nickels

  18. درگذشت اندوهبار پسر خاله عزیز و گرانقدرم، بزرگ خاندان کاظمی را به خاله زادگان بزرگوارم و همه وابستگان آن عزیز از دست رفته تسلیت عرض می کنم

    روان پاکش در بهشت برین شاد و یادش جاودان باد

    ارادتمند: بیژن مولانا

    • Bessiar mamanoon az soma Bijanjon keh hamisheh barayeh Irajkhon hozoor dashteen; Irajkhon bessiar be shoma eradat dasht va doostetoon dash.

      Enshaalleh shoma azizan salamat bashid

  19. Dear Gissoo,

    I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your father. No matter when, letting go of someone you love is always too early. Wishing you and your family strength in this difficult period.

    Warm regards,
    Femke

  20. با نهایت تأسف خبر در گذشت اندوهبار پسر خاله عزیز و گرانقدرم جناب آقای ایرج کاظمی را به فرزندان و خاله زادگان بزرگوارم تسلیت عرض نموده
    روحشان شاد، یاد و خاطرشان گرامی

    ❤️ منیژه مولانا

  21. The Kazemi family is in my thoughts and prayers for the loss of their dear father. Nothing will ever take away our memories of those that we loved and lost.

  22. The soul of such a magnificent human being is captured in the hearts of all that gaze upon you. Your eyes dazzle with the wisdom of sun. Your son is a shining beacon of light that I have had the pleasure of working with and getting to know. He has shared your family’s courageous and inspiring journey with me and it was my honor to share it with others! May you find your beloved place in all of eternity and set the sky on fire from the other side of the vibrational divide. Peace and blessings upon you and your family always! Ashe!

  23. It’s hard to put into words the range of emotions I am feeling at the moment, regarding the passing of Bagi, my beloved grandfather; I feel immensely saddened by the fact that he is no longer with us, yet also extremely grateful for the many fond memories I have of him and of the time that we spent together. Looking back, it is bittersweet to remember these memories, such as him and Dai burying Emily and I in the sand at LBI, our binge-watching sessions of the Rockford Files, and the many occasions upon which we would enjoy kebab and rice together. Bagi was one of the kindest, wisest, most loving, and most honest men to grace this world, and I will always look up to him as a role-model for what it means to be a truly good man.

    • Thank you William for such a sweet and thoughtful massage. Baji loved you and his whole family very much and especially his grandkids. Please know that you have and will always make him proud as he looks over you from heaven.

    • Dear William
      Thank you for your heartfelt sentiments which could not have been easy for you. Dad and I are so proud of the kind and considerate person you have become-we are grateful for you!
      Love you 🥰

    • Sweetest William,
      He is forever with you, in your heart and through your journey in this life.
      Love you

  24. Dear Modjeh ,
    you are always in our thoughts. We shall never forget Amu.
    „ In one of the stars I shall be living in one of them I shall be laughing. And so it will be as if all the stars were laughing when you look at the sky at night.“ the Little Prince- Antoine de Saint-Exupery

    with love Mariam , Robert , Juliane and Charlotte

    • Dear Mariam, Robert and Therese and lovely Charlottes,
      Thank you for your thoughtfulness and love always. Baba loved you. I know Amu received him in heaven and they have a lot of catching up to do 🥲. Thank you!
      Love, Gissoo

  25. Dear Modjeh , Gissoo and Tooradje

    „Death is not the end.
    Death can never be the end.
    Death is the road.
    Life is the traveller.
    The Sould is the Guide .“
    -Sri Chinmoy

    in Loving memory

    Therese

    • Thank you Terese. We miss you. Your thought and kindness are soothing. We miss Baba very much – I know Amy and Baba are together looking over us.
      Love you
      Gissoo

    • Dearest Therese,

      thank you so much for your kind words; he was a marvelous man, just like Amoo…I miss him every day, and a few times a day, and cannot believe it has been a month already.
      I wish for him to be happy and smiling wherever he is.

      He loved speaking with you and I could always hear his loud laughter when you two spoke.
      Thank you for always being there.

  26. Dear Gissoo and Family,
    We are very sorry to hear the news about your father; sending our prayers to you and your family during this very difficult time. We know he was a very loving soul having met him a few times. May you find comfort in your memories of him and that will be with you forever.
    God Bless you and your family,
    Love, Rose Mary & Jeff, Mark & John

  27. It has been my privilege to have spent time with such an amazing, generous and loving man. He was truly a light shining bright in this world. I am heart broken at our family’s loss. I love you, Baba Iraj and will miss you greatly.

    • Thank you for the sweet words Tracey as we both know Baba thought very highly of you, and was extremely happy to have you be part of our family

  28. Our heartfelt condolences to the Kazemi family from Mom and me. He was such a pleasant person to be with at your family gatherings.

    I recall vividly that we were together at you wedding and he intervened when a family lawyer started asking about my religious background, he became annoyed at him and told me to ignore him. It was very comforting to me. I only wish we had more time to spend together with him.

    • Thank you, dear John and Faith.
      He was a lovely man, a kind and patient father, a precious friend, and a gift to everyone who knew him.
      I have missed him…
      My love to you both.

  29. Dear Gissoo and Family,
    Sending my deepest condolences to you and your during this difficult time. I hope that you will take comfort in your memories of your father. He has left a wonderful legacy – a life well lived.
    Deepest sympathies
    Sharon Allen

  30. Dear Gissoo,
    I am sorry for your loss. Losing a parent is very hard and I am sending you prayers of love and comfort to you and family.
    Love, Ouzna

    • Dear Ouzna
      Thank you so much for the kind and thoughtful sentiments. My condolences to you on the loss of your mother. My heart aches for losing a parent – it is never easy. You and family are in our thoughts and prayers 😞
      Love, Gissoo

  31. Dear Gissoo,
    Please accept my deepest condolences on the loss of your father. He sounds like he was an amazing man. Thinking of you, and sending you and your family love and prayers during this difficult time.
    Kindest Regards,
    Donna


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