Raymond ‘Ray’ Ayala was born on November 8th, 1972, to his loving Parents Ray and Lita Ayala. He was raised alongside his sisters Charlene, Ginger, and Crystal in Huntington Beach. As a young man, Ray was very passionate about sports and played for Huntington Beach High School. He was known to be a massive fan of The Los Angeles Dodgers, and Oakland Raiders. Ray was a hard and dedicated worker, who first started his career in Injection Molding alongside his father. He had great passion for the industry and would love to tell his family and friends about the projects that he would be working on. He took great pride in his work and would talk to anyone who asked about it. Ray had many passions in life, but there was nothing in this world that he was more passionate about than his daughter. Julianne Nicole Ayala was born on April 12, 2007, and Ray’s life would never be the same. His love for her was so strong that it radiated and filled the room whenever you were around him. Ray was a force of nature, determined to provide for Julianne and give her the life he felt she deserved. Ray was well known to be the best person behind the grill. His dream was to one day open a BBQ restaurant. He enjoyed listening to oldies, while drinking a cold beer, and being surrounded by his loved ones, telling jokes and sharing stories. As a loyal Dodger fan, he always enjoyed going to Dodger games with his daughter. He had a long-standing tradition of eating at The Pantry before every Dodger game, as he used to as a child with his parents, and now his daughter. Ray recently moved back to California from Texas to be closer to his daughter and mother. He was excited to be able to spend more time with them. Ray was a man who loved deeply and the world is a different place without him. He will be forever missed. Ray is predeceased by his father Ray Ayala. He is survived by his mother Lita, daughter Julianne, and sisters Charlene, Ginger, and Crystal.

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  1. Bro .. your spirit is in peace .. I’m loving you and missing you hard. Too many moments wasted but so many real ones that will remain in my heart forever! I loved you like a brother I will never stop pushing… rolling .. and bumping music, bbq ing , celebrating , shooting pool, playing spades, dominoes, for you . I know you knew God and that gives me peace! Until we meet again! Julianne will know her Uncles and know she is loved !! We will be in her life, your light shine in her life forever. We will be there to keep you alive ! You were the BEST at being her Daddy. I admired you for the sacrifices you made for her . It touched many people the way you embraced fatherhood. If God asks you what you did in your life ….. You loved !! You lived!! And you will never be forgotten .. Gone too soon but Gods plans are bigger than ours…Rest in love Lil Big Cousin. I love you to Mars n back ( bc you know the moon is just too mellow for us!!)

  2. My big brother!! My heart is aching! As a little girl, I was always so proud to have a big brother. I never doubted your love for me! You showed me in so many ways. It was hard for us in your life, but I hope you see my love for you and how it never left and how it never will. I know you are with Dad and you both are probably BBQing and sitting on that beautiful farm he talked about the one with lots of green grass. I like to think he greeted you with his huge open arms and a big smile when you entered heaven. I’m so sorry this happened to you! But I know your baby has the best angel on her side. Love forever, your little sister, Crystal

  3. My handsome godson I’m sorry your life is shorter than what I would’ve even thought. I love you with all my heart and loved all of our special talks that we had. Being the first boy born in our mediate family of course you are very special. I was lucky to be your godmother. We had such a special relationship which I will cherish for the rest of my life I will meet you in heaven. I hope you and Justin and Pop your Nino are having a great time. I will contact Julianne as much as possible and make sure she is doing OK as she is so sad at this moment. Your sisters are taking charge of your service and they’re doing an excellent job you definitely will be proud of them. Love you my blessed godson

    Love always, Nina

  4. My little brother you are in heaven in peace! I wish I had more time! Love you forever ?

  5. Ray thank you for being such a great dad to Julianne. The memories that we created as a family with Julllisa and Victor will always be with us. I promise to take care of your princess and will always honor your memory throughout her life. I don’t understand why God took you so soon but I know that you are in his loving arms. I’m happy that our last time together was a joyful event and we will always cherish that. Watch over her and guide her always. You will forever be in my heart. Con mucho amor y carino.

  6. Ray..you were really nice..Jr and I really cared for you..Memories we will cherish in our hearts..Now you are free..May You RIP..Jr. & Rosa Meza..Oxnard. Ca. ???❤?

  7. Raymond damn bro I couldn’t believe when they told me my heart is broken your like a brother to me from day one We were Solid! Nobody can ever take that from us! I’ll always remember the good times we had even when Becky got mad we still always laughed about. Until
    We meet again brother love you always … your brother from another mother David
    P.s stop waking me up at 4 in the morning at least wait til six

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