Ronald Lee Chavez
December 8, 1964 ~ August 29, 2024
Ron passed away on August 29, 2024 surrounded by his loving wife and daughters at their family’s ranch near Temecula California at the age of 59. He was born on December 8, 1964 in Albuquerque New Mexico to parents Elias and Arlene Chavez. As a child Ron and his family lived and traveled extensively throughout Asia and Europe accompanying his father who was working there. Upon return to the US, they lived in Northern California, Virginia and New Mexico. Ron attended El Dorado High School in Albuquerque New Mexico and The University of New Mexico in Albuquerque. Ron enjoyed athletics in High School and was a state champion wrestler.
Ron had a way of making anyone he met feel like a longtime friend. Nationality, age, race, and social status had no bearing as he was able to comfortably converse and find common ground with just about anyone. Ron’s long list of friends from around the globe is evident of this. Ron had a presence about him that was contagious. His big smile, eagerness to engage and overwhelming positivity lit up a room. When asked how his day was, his typical response was “Enjoying life” and that is exactly what he did whenever he had the opportunity. He was an avid outdoorsman and throughout his life had a fondness for scuba diving, caving, hiking, camping, climbing, skeet shooting and he enjoyed trying anything that allowed him to be close to nature.
Ron continued to be very well traveled for both business and pleasure. Until taking early retirement, Ron worked for Continental Airlines from 1986 to 2003 starting in Albuquerque New Mexico, then on to Houston Texas and Dallas Texas in various capacities. This helped to fulfill Ron’s love of everything aviation. In the next phase of his life, Ron also worked in Logistics and Security Management on several Government and Oil & Gas Contracts around the globe. At the time of his death Ron and his wife were small business owners serving the San Diego California area. Ron proudly served our country as an Officer with the Army and National Guard from 1989 to 2001. He was also employed as a private contractor for several years where he was deployed to Iraq and Afghanistan.
In 1994 Ron met and fell in love with his wife and partner Patti (Pretopapa). They were married in 1997 in Saipan and put down roots in the Houston Texas area for many years. There they were blessed with their beloved twin daughters Samantha and Raquel. Ron loved to talk about, show pictures and praise his family to anyone willing to listen. He was proud that he was blessed and not afraid to let everyone around him know. In 2016 Ron and family moved to Southern California where he and Patti became business owners serving the San Diego area.
Ron was preceded in death by his mother Arlene and is survived by his father Elias, his wife Patti and daughters Samantha and Raquel, his sister Karen Chavez-Neill from Overland Park Kansas, and other siblings, nieces, nephew, aunts, uncles and cousins in New Mexico, Texas, Florida, Kansas, Connecticut, and California.
Funeral arrangements were entrusted to England Family Mortuary, Inc.
I got to know Ron while we both worked at an Oil and Gas Facility up north in Alberta. He had a way of always make you feel comfortable and was extremely kind.
Ron, you will be missed. RIP
Adam Smith
Ron was the light that lit Patti’s flame. When first introduced to him it was quite evident that he and Patti were going to make a life together that was both meaningful and fun. Their twin girls completed their family in every way, met more than their expectations, and even enhanced their love story. They enjoyed everything together. Rons smile, humor, loving hugs, and easy nature will always be missed. Thank goodness for the great memories he’s left each of us ❤️❤️❤️.
I got to know Ron at Continental Airlines in Houston, I always thought a lot of Ron and miss him!
Mr. And Mrs. Jose & Jennelle Negron. We love you all❤️
My condolences to Patti & her daughters & to all who loved Ron . God bless u all my thoughts and prayers are with u .
My condolences to the family. Ron was a great person. We will all miss him.
I will always cherish Ron and his friendship! He was always so kind and fun! May the Lord keep Patti and his girls in his embrace, giving them strength. My sincerest condolences!
Patty, our heartfelt condolences to you and the girls. Ron would want us to celebrate his life and not mourn his passing. He was the best friend a person could have. He was reliable and gave all to whatever he did. He will not be forgotten! I love him always as a brother.
In the fall of 1976 a family moved in next door, 3 girls and a boy. The families grew close and even moved to Dallas and lived close to each other. At the time who knew how these families would impact each other. I gained a brother and sister from another mother that fall. Through the years I’ve seen Ronnie grow and change from a boy, to a man, and finally a husband and father. The last two roles being his favorite of all time.
Ronnie always brought a smile to anyone’s face he met, whether it was the 1st time or the hundredth. Your infectious smile and goofy laugh will be missed by everyone.
You were loved and you will be missed, the world is a little less bright now.
I love you Ronnie and hope you are at peace and pain free.
I’m so sorry to hear of your loss. I worked with Ron Kandahar. He was always friendly and welcoming. He made us newbies feel at home. I enjoyed knowing him, as did many, many others. I’ve enjoyed following him on FB. I hope knowing that everyone who knew him really liked him can help to ease your pain in some small way. Please accept my sincere condolences.
Grateful to have known Ron, who never had a bad word, celebrated his love for his wife daily and approached life with a sense of humor and wonder. Wishing you all the best in this transition Patti. He’ll be missed by many. Keep Truckin’ and Fly like an Eagle, Ron. Former EHS classmate, Robin
We were delighted to have Ron and Patti and there two young girls move in just 2 houses down so many years ago in Montgomery Tx.
Ron and Patti both were always smiling every time you would see them. Though we didn’t get to spend a lot of time together with everyone’s busy lives. We always thought of them as friends.
Ron always had a funny story to share.
The world was a brighter place with Rons smilng face. Though he has gone on I know he is shining down on Patti and the girls and will forever watch over them
Go with God Ron
The Gilberts
I met Ron five years ago in Las Cruces New Mexico. Immediately one knows the excellent character of a person who is at home anywhere and with anyone because they are at ease in themselves. The Buddhists call this regal ease, and its twin components are wisdom and compassion.
When I visited Ron and his beloved wife, Patti, in Temecula, I felt that we were all old friends. To quote another wise soul, Gandalf ” End? The journey doesn’t end here. Death is just another path, one that we must all take .The grey rain-curtain of this world rolls back, and all turns to silver glass, and then you see it. White shores, and beyond, a far Green Country under a swift sunrise.”
Ron, I wish you a great awakening. I am sure we will meet again.
With love for him and his family,
Rochelle
Celebrate vs Mourning. Yes, my heart breaks that Patti and the girls lost a good one, such a good man. When I think of Ron, I think of a curious and intelligent person who loved life deeply and lived fully. I will miss his humor and his ever present laugh. One of my funniest memories of him was in 10th grade. We went to Homecoming and my military father gave him a ‘friendly’ interview with some firm advice. He was a trooper with that. When we drove to the valley and had dinner at a fine territorial restaurant, which has since closed, I broke the ice attempting to squeeze a lemon in my iced tea. It flew across the room and landed near another table. We laughed and laughed and laughed about it 40 years later. Rest well my sweet friend. You are most loved and will be dearly missed.
I remember Ron from High School ,his good natured ways and big smile. Thank you Ron for your service to our country. Your spirit will always live on.
Ron was a fantastic neighbor and friend and always had a smile and a helping hand for anyone who would ask. We have great memories of living next door to them for several years as our kids grew up together. The world is a sadder place for having lost him and we pray comfort and blessings on Patti, Samantha and Raquel. Ron left a great legacy of friendship for you all to treasure!
I met Ron in 2018 when I started working at Spaceport America. We became instant friends and we worked together until Ron discovered he had cancer, although we stayed connected from then on. Ron was a great guy with a passion for space and life. In our adventures in New Mexico and California we became close friends and brothers. He was a great man, and he was devoted to his wonderful wife Patti and his two daughters. Ron will be missed and always loved and remembered. I will miss the many long conversations we had about his experiences and about our optimistic views of the future. Ad Astra Ron.